couples counselling


You might think it is easier to separate than work through problems with your partner, but the discord you are both suffering can also be a great place to learn about yourselves and your relationship, and from there, to improve your lives.

Often relief can be found by looking back to the beginning of the relationship and at your individual histories before that, to see the roots of the current problem.

What originally attracted you to each other?

How did you 'fit' yourselves around each other, and why is this now not working for you?

How can you reach a new understanding and find a way to move forward?

I can help you untangle and understand how long-held individual needs and behaviours which may have originally drawn you together, could cause your current disharmony. Learn also, how to improve communication with each other in the future, by finding ways to truly listen and feel heard by each other.